TRUE HAPPINESS LIES WITHIN YOU

                             

HAPPINESS is one thing we all want at the end of the day.All our struggles/hustles of life all gears towards been happy and comfortable.We need to to be happy and most of us can do anything so they live happiness even if its a crime,i mean we are willing to do anything,But we often get it wrong and we look for happiness in wrong places .

HAPPINESS DIFFER'S  FROM A TO B
The whole essence of our hard work is to make ourselves happy right?. Yes happiness is paramount and we all crave for those things that makes us happy.
But at the end of the day, every one needs different things to make themselves happy and comfortable. What makes Mr A comfortable and happy doesn't make Miss B happy and comfortable, that's the world we have to
Man can do anything to feel happy with himself and he also can go any length to get. And some has ended us in bad situations, regrettable events, crime, sin, etc.
Some has resulted to taking hard drugs to feel valuable, happy, strong etc while some take drugs to not to feel the pain in front of them, some to forget the bad situations but whatever the reasons might be does it really justify our actions? You should be the judge of that.

 BECOMING ADDICTED TO WHAT MAKES US HAPPY
It is said that too much of everything is bad. While we seek for happiness with the things we think is right, as time goes on we become addicts to them and our lives and whole being depends on that to be happy. When the things that makes you happy are not within your reach you become desperate and gets sick and some die because it's become part of there body system.You should be addicted with yourself by shutting out the hurt and prove to the world that you can make yourself happy even though you are facing crisis.That's if your reason for not been genuinely happy is because of your past,hurt/pain.

THE MISTAKE WE MAKE
We make the mistakes of thinking our happiness comes from stuff we can acquire but we get it all wrong. When you trust your happiness in the stuff you have or want to have and one day those stuffs are not there, what then happens. Or what if you can't get the stuffs that you think can make you happy?. Instead of looking inwards and trying to resolve the things that has taking away your happiness ,you resolve to doing something you will one day regret.Who can actually make you if not you,some are afraid of there past,they refuse to face it head on and turn to bad substance that can harm the body in along run.These are the things most people consider when they are afraid to face life.
1)Smoking
2).Drinking
3).Taking Drugs
4).Eating
5).Money
6). Lifestyle(Living a particular way or behaving a particular way. Etc.

WE SHOULD JUDGE OURSELVES THEN
When someone tries to tell us what's right,where true happiness lies we tend to refuse and shun any opinions especially for those that has given up on themselves and turned to taking something to feel better. Nobody is judging you, nobody can tell you what to do, nobody can live your life for you,only you can actually. You can decide today to seek true and genuine happiness and not depend on stuffs for happiness.Some of us make no effort in been happy again and yet we blame life for where we are now,really who is to be blame for the stuff you are passing through,do they have ears to hear your daily grumbling.murmuring,and complains,they do not.Only you can hear yourself and proffer solutions to your crisis.Everyone faces crisis at a point in life but will that define them,will that be a reason not to be happy? Absolutely not.Even when friends and family tries to encourage us,motivate and inspire us,we do not see or accept that into our system,we rather shut everyone out and prefer staying alone and staying negative.There are positive things around us but some of us do not see it because we are fully of negativity and that is why we've remained where we are,garbage in garbage out.If you see positive around you all the time,automatically positive things begin to come your way and vice versa.We should talk to ourselves and at the same time be the judge since no one knows your pain or knows what you've  been through ,then only you can decide to be happy again.

WHERE DOES GENUINE HAPPINESS COME FROM?.
Does true happiness come from the things we take in or the thing that are already in ..
In our quest for happiness and comfort-ability, we pass through so many harsh situations and face the worst things that life has to offer and we shift from those things that actually can bring happiness to the stuff that can give you a moment of happiness and take away your sanity and soul. How can we be comfortable when all we face is the same bad things over and over again we ask.When we have lost our source of happiness, how then do we find our way back to true happiness we say.
Who knows what will happen to us in the next second or day, who knows if that thing that gives us Ultimate happiness may not be there within a twinkle of an eye. Really no one knows but we can't stop it, neither can we regret and punish ourselves for the things that has happened to us for the rest of our life. Bad things happen and so what, i am still gonna find my way back to happiness, worst maybe come my way and so what I am still gonna fight for my sanity and be happy no matter what.
Happiness is yours and yours alone, only you can decide to be happy or not. If you put your life on hold based on what happened, it's gonna keep growing until you hate yourself and no longer want to stay alive but the world will move on even if you stay down or you move along with the world and be happy every time and everyday of your life.
HAPPINESS is an art that can be learned. Instead of sitting around waiting for joy to descend upon you or searching for fulfillment in all the wrong places, consider how you can incorporate these keys to true sustainable happiness into your life. 1. Authenticity. You are a once-in-humankind event . it's been okay with yourself and excited and appreciative for the people you have around you,  for whom you are, and where you are going among all odds. Happiness is satisfaction,contentment,they are all related. It is when you don't appreciate the people you have in your life, you don't value yourself, you don't have a clear vision of yourself tomorrow that you begin to doubt your self and refuse to be happy. There is always a reason to be happy and many of don't see that, that is why we want to have the world in order to be happy. See greatness in your self and let happiness spring up from the inside out.There are thousand reasons you have to be grateful for because its when you are ungrateful that you do not see the great things happening in your life.For the mere fact that you are still alive today means you have a chance to achieve your purpose and dreams.Open your eyes up and minds too,don't shut it and see a bright future ahead of you if only you would rise from the dirt and take a stand to fight for makes you happy.
Don't allow anyone or anything steal your happiness and comfort from you. You and you alone can make you self happy and the end of the day not the thing you take inside. Believe in yourself, love yourself, believe in the people around you and appreciate them, and trust in your tomorrow because it will be alright.
      YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY AND TRUE HAPPINESS LIES WITHIN YOU

WHO AM I?

                                         

It's the most common question of all time, very easy to answer to some people and very complicated to answer to some other people. Well for those that can answer correctly are very few, we might think we know whom we are but we don't know,while those of us that think we know much about our self, we find out that we don't know ourselves at all. It's frequently asked, in the church,in seminars, in our families, our neighborhood etc.When we are even asked about whom we are, we often laugh about it and pass the question because understanding who we are isn't something you discover just like that.

For some it has taken them almost all the days of their life to know who they are. And for some they discover who they are as early and as quick as possible. I am not saying the question is simple to answer but it's confusing to Answer.

                                           HOW PURPOSE IS DISCOVERED
*.Some discover themselves by accident.Yes,unknowing to them they are where they are suppose to be and they did not plan for it

*.Some discover themselves by experience.Overtime,in the cause of doing a particular thing you discover that is what you are called to do or in other case where you are called to be

*.Some discover who they are by searching for themselves.They look for what they want and where they want to be,they try different things in other to see where there strength lies and at the end of the day they find it.Its all about following your passion

*. While some are called to it,they are born it into there purpose.From the genesis of their live they find out that they are been chosen right from birth to be something or to be somewhere.

No matter how you discover it,what matters is that you discover it and make use sure you live by it and with it

.Like i always say, only you can answer that question, only you can define who you are, don't allow others tell you who you are or what you can or can't do.
Now,for the few of us that says we know ourselves, well how well do we know ourselves. Are we actually convinced beyond reasonable doubt that we know ourselves?.what makes us so sure?.Maybe the part of we know ourselves is knowing when we are hungry, knowing when what we want,or knowing what we are allergic to and knowing what can harm us, literally that's how much know

                         DANGER OF NOT DISCOVERING YOURSELF
There is a pattern in the universe and there is a way God designed time and moment.Everything on earth has a time frame, For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; ...
So there is an expiring date to everything,as it is to things ,so is it to our purpose.The longer it takes to embark on your purpose the further it goes away.
Today is the day to make destiny not tomorrow because your decision today determines whether your tomorrow will be great or not.So stand up and take destiny by your hands,It all starts from knowing that purpose  

FREEDOM FOR AFRICA

Africa is best,greatest,most blessed continent in the whole universe.I do not think there is a single soul on this earth that has never heard of the word “AFRICA “,the word lies in the lips of every man on earth.It is a continent that can not be over-phazied ,i mean it can not be left out of the lips of men,it can not be forgoten ,neither can men refuse to acknowledge it.It does not matter whether AFRICA is remembered for negativity or the other round does not matter,what matters is that we very unique that AFRICA is the center of the world and we are the source and origin of the world.

All life on earth can be traced back to the land of AFRICA,it gave birth to the life we see now,it is a land GOD deposited almost half of natural resources in,a land of milk and honey,a blessed land,a mother to rest of the world. Africa is actually one the wealthiest continents in the world in terms of natural resources. Many countries inAfrica contain rich reserves of valuable minerals like coltan, diamonds, gold, and bauxite, as well as other valuable commodities like oil, gas, and timber. God has a reason why he deposited such an enormous amount of natural resourse because we are a chosen people.

But despited our importance in the world today,despite our contribution and providing the world with what it needs to keep life going,AFRICA has been ignored and looked down upon.The wrong perception has been planted in the mind of younger and upcoming generations.We have been decieved by the outside world,we have been told so many lies and we believed it.We have been rejected and we too have rejected our mother land,the lies are spreading by day and it has poluted our minds and those who does not about the poeple of AFRICA.We rather believe in lies than believe in ourselves,we rather get rejected by outsiders than accept our origin,we prefer to have originated from some other place than our mother land.Although some of us would not acknowledge it ofcourse nobody will accept that he/she has denied his origin openly and outrightly but unconsciously ,i mean unknowing to us we do deny our land.We have sold out our birth right with no price but shame.

When last have we been proud of where we came from,the place of our origin,the land of our forefathers/ancestors,we last have we said some positive about AFRICA,when last have we seen something good or unique about our land,do we still still believe in our land?,rather we have given up on her and ran after other ones,we are more prouder to nationalize somewhere else than to believe and work towards contributing our own qouta to our mother land.We prefer to hate ourselves and fight ourself than develope our beloved land,we prefer to our land in shambles than see it grow and progress,we have forgotten so quickly that it is our father land,it is our heritage and we ought to protect and trust her and believe in her.If we do not appreciated it,how would outsiders or people of other continent appreciate or know about our worth and value.

We have been told that we are slaves and servants and uneducated people,we have been told several lies and we have accepted it and our lives has been patterned to the lie.If a dog is treated like a goat or a pig with time it will start behaving like one after it has been trained that way,it is also same for human beings whatever we are told we are and we are been taught that way,we would definitely behave that way.Just imagine your memory has been taken away,maybe after an accident or an infection and at consciousness he/she is been told that he/she was a doctor which they never was.The victim immediately starts to behave like one because he believes the lie he/she was a doctor.It is the same for us AFRICANS,because we have been told these lies since we were given birth to and it has been told from generation to generation,so the lie has thrived because there are men that wants us to believe what we are not.

I do not want to talk about history right now,but what perception do you have about AFRICA?,whether you are from there or not,what impression enters your mind when you hear the word AFRICA?,what feeling do you have when you see an AFRICAN?.If all you get are negative feelings/thoughts or negative vibes well change that thought today.Rather than think you are superior,rather think you were our masters,rather than think you are more smart,why not think stand up and support AFRICA AND AFRICANS,instead of hating Africans why rise up and love and accept them.

No matter how we want the world to accept us and agree that we can not be ignored,the truth is that we remain united,we remain stronger and stronger despite all the crisis and challenges.Some are angry at us that no matter the amount of crisis we have,we come out stronger and we prevail over all.No matter the backwardness we are happy people,we are lively people,nobody can take that away from us.AFRICA IS HERE AND IS NOT GOING ANY TIME SOON,WE HAVE COME TO STAY,WE HAVE HERE TO TELL THE WORLD THAT WE ARE STRONGER AND WE MUST PREVAIL AND REFUSE TO FAIL OR BOW TO PRESSURE.No matter what any body says,nobody take the fact that we are growing and expanding,we are developing,we are conquring ,we are winning the war away from us.We have left our prints on the surface of the universe,history can not ignore us,it can not the fact away from us that we were here before any other soul.We first saw civilization and we can not be told otherwise.

So many has fought the good fight,to end the crisis and to unity us,have we contributed our own quota?.As Africans,we have so many expectation about the way we want to see our father land,but our dreams would not come to pass if we do not work towards it.You must not be in the government to be able to contribute ,in that neighborhood of yours,you can contribute by not destroying your land and going against the law of our land.By preserving our tradition and norms so they do not fade away,by trying as much as possible of giving out hands to our brothers and sisters wherever we maybe be,by loving ourselfs and others too,by trying to improve life in our home land.Do not join to destroy your heritage.

Let not the death of our prophets be in vain,lets carry this message and tell it to our childrena and the world at large.Our voice must be heard,we must not silinced ,we must fight for land,for our children and equality.For how long shall we stand and look our prophet been killeda and subdued,let us make our voice heard,and carry on the good message o our fallen heroes. Let generations to come hear our songs of victory and let our works be forever in the lips of men until the end.What shall be that song we shall sing in the end? IT IS THE SONG OF FREEDOM.But we must start singing it now,so all ears should hear,all mouth should confess and all heart should acknowledge that WE ARE THE GREATEST.

AFRICA WE NEVER FORGET THESE HEROES THAT FOUGHT THE GOOD FIGHT

1).Nelson Mandela

2).Cetshawayo Kampande(zulu king)

3).Funmilayo Ransome Kuti(woman Activist)

4).Mariam Makeba (The mother of Africa)

5).Bob Marley

6).Angeligue kijo

7).Kwame Nkrumah

8).Nnamdi Azikiwe

9).Femi anikulapo kuti

10).African populace

Bob marley says no body can free us from the ideology of slavery,it is because it is in our mindset and so except we free our mind of that orientation ,we can not really be free………………………………… RISE UP AFRICAN PEOPLE AND LETS US REDEEM OURSELF AND PROVE TO THE WORLD WE ARE TRUE AFRICANS AND WE SHALL OVERTAKE THE REST OF THE WORLD.GOOD BLESS AFRICA

FOCUSING ON THE FUTURE

                             

The future is a very big one that no man know  or have an idea on how it's gonna look like.Although we have dreams and goals on how we all want our future to appear.Its a good thing to have our future planed out and have great hope and expectations.Of course what we hope for is what we get if we put in effort in that hope. We look forward to having an amazing life and hoping all we ever ask for to come to pass.For most of us hoping is want keeps in alive and we keep fighting because we hope for a greater tommorow.We all can't wait to see that day we will drive the car of dreams, live in the house of our dream, marry the kind of partner we love to be with, live the kind of life that we deserve, give our loved ones the good things of life, make impact in the society and make our society a good place.I bet every human on earth thinks that way you know, who would not want a great life and a great tommorow.
Focusing on the future is the best way to actualize that dream of yours, no doubt about that. When we don't concentrate on what  is after us, we tend to get there at all cost. But the reason why we fail is we focus more on the future and loose focus on what is in front on us. We don't recognize our future and dream because we have devouted our selves to that perfect life of the future and when opportunities comes our way we don't take because it doesn't look like where we are going, it doesn't look attractive and easy. We all hope for this great life and we patiently wait for it, thinking that when it comes we will grab it but when the future comes In disguise we don't recognize it because we are busy waiting for the perfect one.
The future we all love to see, is not what we think it will look like. It will trick us into not believing it, it will deceive us not grab it, so it goes to the people that wants in dearly and the people that can welcome it with open arms when it comes. I can say literally that the future we hope doesn't exist unless we build and create it with what we have in our hands. It comes that people that wants to make something out what is available and at there disposal, it does come to people that wants it as they have dreamt it.
Where we live now,is what somebody created with the thing he had, he didn't want till he had what he wanted but he started his future with his own hands. That is to say that the future we think it's far, lies with us, it's in our hands to make. We build it, we create it, it is not already made.Why not we look at what is in front of us and made something out of them, why not we look deeply and analysis what is available to see how we can turn it into a futune.It is the raw materials around us that when we discover then, we turn it to futune then it paves way for a great future for us.
WHATEVER WE DO NOW, WILL BE USED FOR OR AGAINST US IN THE COURSE OF OUR FUTURE. If we choose to ignore what we have in or around us, it will tell on us tomorrow. Let's learn to accept what we have now and focus on them  instead of focusing more on a mere fantasy.Whatever God wants us to be, the raw materials has already been made available  for us, it's just that we refuse to acknowledge them..
We focus more on the focus than we do  on the Now, it's the Now that gives us a rare view  of what the future is gonna look like in terms of the decision we talk today. Look closely, there is something hidden from your eyes that can make you a futune, we sometimes are blinded by our greed that is why we don't get to the promise land. Make sure you exhauste all the available options. The future is Now, it's here and it is in you and around you.

TEN FACTS ABOUT MORNING

                                 MORNING JINGLE / GOOD MORNING

1).Morning brings up a new beginning and it refreshes you

2).Morning brings Absolute rest and calmness

3).Morning brings about peace

4).Morning brings Joy,no wonder the bible says Joy comes in the morning

5).Morning is the best period of the day

6).Morning is period of the in which our brain is so active that it can process and assimilate most      things that comes into it

7).Our strength replenishes in the morning,we become stronger and fit

8).Most people are very optimistic and very positive in the morning

9).Morning is attributed to good moments unlike night

10).Morning determines how the rest of the day is gonna look like

So use your morning well,remove stress and shake off the stress and start your morning on a good note.Free your mind and remove the worries and start with a positive mindset.Do not start your day with all the problem you have ,feel free and feel as if you have no problem in the world.When you feel happy and plan out how your day is going to be then everything will fall in place

   ......................  FEEL FREE,BE HAPPY.....................GOOD MORNING 

AN ADVICE TO ONESELF

 INTRODUCTION

       
             
     
Talking about motivation,yes the very name of the blog. Motivation is a word that is very dear to me because all through my life, i have sort for a medium to motivate my self.You know, when i was growing up,i didn't get the chance of going to church although i am a Christian not to talk of reading books.I just lived life with no concern of how my tomorrow will be,I had no vision for tomorrow  and so i sort for way to get motivated.And i end up going to church and getting close to GOD and that began my journey to success.When i encountered God my eyes opened,yeah as it was in the bible about when Adam and Eve ate the fruit,but this was positively not negatively.My life changed right from that period,i didn't know i have been in darkness for longtime unknowing to me.But GOD changed my orientation and my believe system.I had hope for a better future for the first time in my life.
After so many years in the church ,i was very happy with my new personality and all that is happening around me,but something was still wrong somewhere,in the sense that the church i was going at that moment didn't talk about financial success and i needed it.Because its one thing to be a Christian and its another to be a rich Christian .Most churches dodge preaching financial topics because they feel money is a sin,as a result i wanted answers because i wanted financial freedom.So,as time went on i started asking questions about financial freedom right there in the church  but my pastor knew little or no knowledge about money.I began to worry and continue my inquiry and because of my various questions,i was given a name by the church and by my friends.They call me a man that wants to be wealthy and make a difference,when i talk about money to them,they sometimes wonder if i am truly a Christian or if the love of money has carried me away.Then i started point out bible verses about money and that God wants everybody  to be wealthy not just rich.I am happy to say that,at the end of the day the church started getting the idea that money is not a sin but in the cause of looking for money  one can commit sin.
Some of us as Christians while in the church, hear the pastor preach every day and those that are of other religions too, we hear our religious leaders speak every now and then,they inspire us.Some of us have great friend that gives us great advice's and some of us have great parents that teach us the way to go and be successful too. We now have mentors that have succeeded and we want to be like them,we imitate them and copy there life style. Isn't it great that the whole wide world is full of inspiration, we just can't get enough of inspiration.Every single day, a new motivational speakers come up and talk to us, all to make us succeed right?. Yeah right


                                               QUEST TO FINANCIAL UNDERSTANDING
I sort  for other forms of motivation apart from the one i hear in church,i wanted financial freedom at all cost,i wanted financial advice and understanding,i wanted a different story from the one i hear regularly.I wanted to hear from people that has made it in life but i am not saying churches does not teach about financial success,in fact the first financial success speech i heard was from a pastor of another church,i was surprised as anything you could think of,that a pastor would talk about financial freedom the way he did with verses backing it up.That was when my last eye opened and i became very hungry for financial liberty.NOTE:why do i say financial freedom? its because when you do not have money,you become a slave to it,it tells how to spend,when and it controls you and may even get you in trouble.That is why i said if we die poor its a sin,i am not saying that all poor people are sinners but if you die poor without causing a little or huge impact in your surrounding then its a shame.So my quest to financial understanding opened when i heard the pastor speak,i was happy with my self from that day on.And as time went by i started reading some other motivational books and listened to some other motivational speakers apart from my pastor.So official i had my first financial freedom speech,it was a great deal to me.
 
                                             MOTIVATION IS EVERYWHERE
There are thousands and millions of books on how to get inspired in other to make it in life, if not billions of books even.Books are been published every time, articles here and there, audio speeches, live conferences are been held just to make us grow and be enlightened right. Reality TV shows,talk shows are virtually every where are now the trend in the our society today, just to make it feel real and to connect it the viewers more.We can't really measure the amount of inspiration we get per minute in a day.I mean some of us have children that are there always to support us and encourage us, isn't that an inspiration and motivation to work harder.Some of us have loving partners  that is ready to pass through anything to make us happy, that is also motivation. Motivation and encouragement is everywhere and in surplus.
   
    QUESTIONS THAT BORDERED ME AFTER READING A WHOLE OF BOOKS AND LISTENED TO VARIOUS MOTIVATIONAL SPEECHES AND RELIGIOUS MESSAGES.

 But have we tried to ask our selves this question ❓.. We get enough motivation and inspiration from people all over the world, why then ain't we satisfied we it and why ain't we successful yet?. There are thousands of tips on how to be successful in life by thousands of great people that has made it in life, they are practical examples of great people and they tell us what made them successful but most of us upon hearing this isn't successful still, why is that so?. Have we sat down to answer this question ❓. If no,pause now and try to answer it before you continue.
We all want people that has been successful in life to be our mentors and they are the ones we listen to, most  of us even copy every thing about these people we look up to, I am not saying there is anything wrong with that though.Do not get me wrong, I also have people I look up to and want to be successful as they are but there is something missing somewhere because we have followed there instructions and tips on how to get successful all to no avail, instead they get richer and richer and produce more TV show and we continue watching and God forbid, we continue been a fan til the day we die.
Most of us are great readers, we have read all whole lot of books in our life time, we have had friends that has been successful, but what is happening to us, why ain't we successful as they are.
In other words, motivational speeches and tips on how to be successful and so on and so forth, has made a lot of people successful really, yes it has created and produced great men and women and thanks to those motivational material they where exposed to. Now, why are some successful and some are not successful on getting exposed to the same materials.Do you know why?.
The answer is because they are not hungry for success!!!. Funny right?... No matter the amount of books you read in your life time, no matter the amount of conference you go, no matter the amount of successful people you surround yourself with, no matter the kind of religion you practice, no matter your background, no matter the amount of advice and support you get, if you are not hungry for success, it will not work, you will continue been a fan to those you have read there books and heard them speak and you will continue been in the audience when you go to a Talk show. Some people hears a word for just one time and they make a fortune out of it and some hears the same word every day and nothing changes. What I am saying in a nut shell, is if you do not put it on your veins and blood stream then success is far.Let what you have read overwhelm you, let your hunger for success take control, let passion for greatness lead the way, let you dream dictate. It's one thing to believe and another to believe and act upon what you believe.

           FURTHER  ANSWER I DISCOVERED OVER THE YEARS/ADVICE TO ONESELF 

 The answer is because they are not hungry for success!!!. Funny right?... No matter the amount of books you read in your life time, no matter the amount of conference you go, no matter the amount of successful people you surround yourself with, no matter the kind of religion you practice, no matter your background, no matter the amount of advice and support you get, if you are not hungry for success, it will not work, you will continue been a fan to those you have read there books and heard them speak and you will continue been in the audience when you go to a Talk show. Some people hears a word for just one time and they make a fortune out of it and some hears the same word every day and nothing changes. What I am saying in a nut shell, is if you do not put it on your veins and blood stream then success is far.Let what you have read overwhelm you, let your hunger for success take control, let passion for greatness lead the way, let you dream dictate. It's one thing to believe and another to believe and act upon what you believe.An advice to your self, is the best advice you can ever get, when you are the one that motivates yourself then the sky will be your starting point. The problem is most of us wait to hear from motivational speeches and books but we forget to listen to ourselves.We have read and listened, but we have not read ourselves and let the advice come from the inside, let the encouragement come from the inside, let the hope come from within not from what you are been told.The encouragement we need is within y'all, stop looking for something external to motivate you, find something within. An advice to oneself is the best advice in the world,you can work with it, Live with it and actualize it as well. When there is a huge hunger for success inside of you, you don't wait for some one to pat your back and kiss you on the chick before you stand up and make it happen.
                                                                .IN CONCLUSION

If you are among these category of people, get up and listen to yourself. And you know, most of us has been become frustrated and have become tired of motivational speakers and books because it seems to be an impossibility but do not lose hope. Continue reading and listen to motivational speeches it's the best thing you can do to your self but let the inspiration come from the inside.      People that write and speak do not know your present situation, we just assume and generalize it, only you can understand your self better than any one would ever do, so chill and have cool and nice conversation with your self. Tell your self the truth, you want to be successful or NOT.OR you just want to live and pass away with no difference.

PLAN NOT TO FAIL

                                    
75% of us do not plan, we sit and wait for peoples plan and ideas to covers and we enjoy from them. Some wait for the government to provide jobs, create social securities,pension,child benefits,insurances, ect .There is nothing wrong looking up to your government to do what they are supposed to do.But how long you should you wait is the question you should ask your self.While another category of people wait on family, perhaps your family is rich kind of and we now rely on that. Another category of people build there future on what they are been told by friends,the world, religion etc, perhaps they have promised to take care.How long should you wait?.While some are neither warm nor cold nor hot, they are just there.
Most of us today are so indecisive, and i get it, i mean with so many negative things happen here and there, who plans in a frustrating condition right. What i am saying is that you should determine your future on your own,by yourself and for your self. You are the only architect of your future and except you sit down or sit up and plan for it step by step, nothing will happen.
Secondly, most people do not plan because of lack of hope and believe either in themselves or on life.Look,except you decide to take your life and stop living, you can not escape from the reality of life. While you sit down and do nothing remember you got to feed, you got family and friends to take care of,you got bills to take care of. So instead of sit down and worry if your plan would work out, get up and put your life together. Do not allow the issues of life to distract you, and make you derail from your purpose.its all gonna pass if you watch it critically and look for another alternative.Of course that is what is all about,planning is all about alternatives.If this didn't work, I got to try this other one.
                  BE READY AND ARM YOURSELF WITH THESE WEAPON
                                   FIVE TIPS ON PLANNING
1).Always dissect your present situation and have a good understanding of it.

2).Make sure you always have another plan,an alternative

3).Do not compromise, or else you will be vulnerable to the enemy and exposed

4).Put all you have to make it work out

5). Make sure JESUS is your commander in Chief and Executive officer of your plan.

You ve got to plan, you have to be ready and be strategic at all time.What do we tell our families tomorrow if we fail to plan, what do we offer to them if we sit back and sleep. Remember we are going to have kids tomorrow, what shall we tell them. Some of us even have kids now,have we tried out all options to make them happy?.our indecisiveness will not put food on there table,  Let's have a rethink and go back to the drawing board and get things done the right way.

You simply can't eat your cake and have it. It's not Miracle, I mean people with no plan on how to succeed in life, can not just succeed, it's not possible. There is no magic to it, it's as simple as ABC, IF YOU FAIL TO PLAN, YOU PLAN TO FAIL, there is no better way to explain that statement than it is. Lazy people with no plan whatsoever always want magic or Miracle to happen within a twinkle of an eye, but it doesn't work that way, you can't cheat nature, nature has it that the amount of plan and preparation you put into something, determines the kind of result you cabbage in cabbage out.

So many that has succeed sat down and planned out there life,they read,they had sleepless nights and because they have put in there best,the best result was theirs. Every single thing in the world today started from an idea or from a plan,nothing came into existence without somebody thoroughly thinking it out,planning it out.We now enjoy the ideas and work of people today because some people wanted to make the world a better place.You also can contribute your own quota if you will sit up and plan on how to execute those beautiful ideas of yours.An idea is just as valueless as anything until it has been acted upon.Truly i say to you,many of us will die with our ideas someday because we have listened to what the world is saying,because we did not create the time to act upon those beautiful ideas.You might not know what is in there for you except you try,remove the mindset of failure.You wouldn't know your capacity and the strength you have got if you do not carry out that plan of yours.

Ideas are from God,its a gift from God to cause change in your life and in humanity as well.But the decision to work on those ideas is your sole choice and its your sign of appreciation to God too..If you do not work on them until you pass away then its a shame.GET UP TODAY AND START FROM SOMEWHERE...When you are prepared and have planned very well,you can not be beaten easily,even when you fall,you will rise and become stronger then you were.  

Look at the image above critically and see if you can answer the questions effectively.If you can answer those questions correctly then you have planned well and prepared for the future.